Excerpt from Nitesh Naveen’s [CEO] Email Interview to News 7, Australia
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(Excerpt from Nitesh Naveen’s [CEO] email interview to News 7, Australia on importance of Vedic Values and Vedic Maths)
How to help kids develop character with the Vedic framework đđŒđȘĄ
For hundreds of years, educators used Vedic techniques to teach kids character development.
The best of the schools used the Gurukul framework to train responsible citizens equipped to do the right thing, even when times got hard.
But what does âthe right thingâ mean?
Letâs unpack the 4 Vedic virtues which we are following at The Online Kids:
1. Courage
Courage is the bravery to face adversity.
It doesnât mean weâre never scared, but that when weâre scared, we decide to take action instead of run away.
Itâs the will to press forward, put our đ on the line and our skin in the game.
2. Temperance
Courage is wonderful but we go too far when we take unnecessary risks.
It’s a spectrum: cowardice on the far left, recklessness on the far right, courage in the middle.
We should be brave, not fearful, but we should also avoid foolishnessâthatâs temperance.
3. Justice
For the online kids students, justice is the highest virtue.
It means that we exist for the sake of others, not ourselves. Everything we do should contribute to the good of society.
We must treat others the way we want to be treated and act with honesty, respect, and fairness.
4. Wisdom
Wisdom means making our philosophy work in the real world.
Whatâs the right amount courage? How do I act with justice in this situation?
Wisdom helps us answer these questions, turn our ideas about virtue into action, and make choices with long-term benefits.
Courage, temperance, justice, and wisdomâfour powerful principles for guiding our decisions.
But how can we make the leap from knowing them in our heads to using them in our lives?
Here are 4 tactics for you and your kids:
1. Read stories of heroes, who we call gods
Itâs hard to grasp the benefits of virtue without concrete examples.
Thatâs what makes stories so powerful, especially classic ones from history.
Indian history and mythology is designed for this specific purpose.
You tell them of Ram, who chose a life of courage over pleasure and ease.
Or Shivaji, who used wisdom to escape dangerous enemies.
With clear examples in mind and using examples of real persons and great kings and gods, itâs easier for kids to understand virtue, see its benefits, and integrate it into their lives.
2. Focus on what we control
Talk with kids about how they canât always control what happens, but they can control how they respond.
Sometimes, friends decide to be meanâbut that doesnât mean we have to be mean back.
For example, instead of lashing out in anger, kids can practice calming down by reciting each letter of the alphabet silently to themselves.
They can take a pause and practice temperance and justice.
3. Use a virtue journal âïž
Journaling is an important part of indian calues, but the our heroes didnât keep ordinary journals.
They didnât just write down the events of their day and their emotions.
Instead, they kept track of their principles and focused on growing their character.
Ordinary journals help kids develop self-awareness, but a virtue journal adds an extra benefit:
healthy self-criticism.
It provides kids with an open space for reflection on areas of growth and improvement as they work to become better people.
4. Look at virtue like a muscle đȘ
Sometimes, kids might feel discouraged by the big gap between who they are and who they want to become.
Thatâs why itâs so important to talk about how virtue is like a muscle.
When we first go to the gym, we want instant results, but to make progress, we have to show up consistently and put in the effort.
Itâs the same with virtue.
Itâs hard at first, but with enough time, effort, and reflection, our character grows stronger and stronger.